hw to survive ur first break up

No matter how blissful a relationship is in the beginning,there will come a time when you have ur first fight and for many people t s quiet traumatic. when conflict arises in a once friction free relationship , it almost gives way to insecurity. but take heart , the first fight can actually be a +ve thing. it can be a defining moment in d relationship tat actually ends up making the ground more solid.

The early days of any relationships r d best, coz u both r on ur best behaviour, so to speak .
this s d stage wh u tend to bend over backwards coz u want to knw more bout d other person,and so u tend to be more forgiving of d flaws tat wil chafe at u later.

Once a comfort level s established however, d tolerance level tends to dip, and u arent afraid to show ur partner tat a certain issue s bothering u and tis almost gives rise to d first fight.

ham saying tis coz it hpd in my personal life............. :(

while some first fights end in breakups , it doesnt always have to be tat way,.
u cant go through life witout disagreements
" EVEN THE BEST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE CONFLICTS " :(

in order to survive d first fight a couple needs to be willing to really examine y d fight hpd in d first place. tis might end in a comprimise.

There s any never clear line between wat s right or wrong in a relationship, t could just be the difference of opinion.

" my gal frnd was insecure bout d fact tat i waz frndz wit my excess " dir was d problem started.

for me maintaining my frndship wit them wasnt worth losing my gal frnd .....
so i put my frndships wit them on d back burner....... :)

" IT S ALWAYS frightening to fight for d first time, BUT t s important to ACKNOWLEDGE tat fights r normal and it always happen in a close relationship " :)